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Here are some samples of online dating messages that you can send to someone you're interested in. If you wish to understand the concepts behind these examples, please read our tips for sending unique online dating messages. And keep in mind that to have the best results, you should customize your message to the profile that you're interested in.

Example #1:
A Woman Who Recently Moved to Town and is a Songwriter


Hey Lisa, nice photo (aside from the Giant's hat, of course... Go Braves! :)

I read over your profile and was intrigued by the way you described your passion for songwriting. I'm a guitar player myself, and have been thinking about getting more serious about writing my own songs. Have you ever performed at an open mic night downtown? I usually check out a show once a week and have seen some incredibly talented artists over the years.

Anyway, I hope the locals have been good to you so far (we're not all crazy, you know!).

Example #2:
Making Reference to Some of her Traits and Experiences.


So I used to have this theory that brunettes with tattoos of parrots on their left leg don't enjoy traveling… but you've clearly broken the mould! :)

I'm envious of your trip to Spain, it sounds like the experience had a profound impact on your life. Did you get a chance to try the Tapas in San Sebastian? A friend of mine was there a couple months ago and she can't stop talking about how delicious it was. Have you been to Portugal as well? I'm planning to go this summer and could use some advice.

Example #3:
Generic Message - Goofy

Hey Jenn2243! I've got a gut-feeling that you might be kinda awesome, but before I get ahead of myself, I need to determine whether or not you meet my quality standards. Please answer the following questions:

1) How many episodes of Seinfeld have you watched? (more than 5 or less than 5?)

2) Can you recite the entire alphabet with your eyes closed?

3) Do you know how to operate a forklift? And if so, how many years of forklift experience do you have?

Please answer carefully, as these questions are critically important. Good luck! :)

Example #4:
Hypothetical Travel Question

Hey! I just read over your profile and am totally jealous of all your travel experiences! I'm kinda curious - if you suddenly won a free trip anywhere in the world, which country would you visit?

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